5 Questions You Must Ask Your Kids

September 25, 2026

Based on expert parenting resources, here are five essential questions designed to build connection and understanding:

What are you most excited about right now? This opens the door to positive emotions and current interests.
What’s making you mad lately? This validates their feelings and allows them to vent frustrations safely.
What’s something cool you heard or learned about recently? This encourages intellectual sharing and curiosity.
Is there anything you think I need to know? This invites honesty and ensures parents are aware of important updates or concerns.
What’s an activity you wish we did together more? This helps parents understand their child’s desire for shared time and strengthens the bond.

These questions work best when asked during calm, unhurried moments to encourage deeper, more meaningful conversations.

What Does The KJV Bible Say?

To engage deeply with your children according to a biblical framework, specific intentional questions must be integrated into family life to address the heart, the mind, and the soul.

5 Questions You Must Ask Your Kids (KJV Rooted)

“What is the condition of your heart before God today?” (Proverbs 4:23)
“Are you walking in truth when no one else is watching?” (3 John 1:4)
“How can I help you carry your heavy burdens right now?” (Galatians 6:2)
“Whom or what are you serving with your time and thoughts?” (Joshua 24:15)
“Where do you turn for comfort when you feel afraid or broken?” (Psalm 46:1)

Biblical Framework & Implementation Matrix

Question	Core KJV Scripture	Family Objective	Practical Implementation Goal
1. Heart Condition	Proverbs 4:23 – “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”	Identify hidden motives and deep-seated spiritual needs.	Uncover baseline underlying emotions like hidden anger, resentment, or quiet pride.
2. Walking in Truth	3 John 1:4 – “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.”	Foster radical personal accountability and personal integrity.	Check alignment between a child’s public behavior and private thought life.
3. Carrying Burdens	Galatians 6:2 – “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”	Provide immediate assurance of parental support and relief.	Lower functional stress levels during overwhelming academic or peer crises.
4. Ultimate Service	Joshua 24:15 – “Choose you this day whom ye will serve… as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”	Reveal functional idols (social status, screen time, personal comfort).	Redirect drifting priorities toward long-term service and family unity.
5. Source of Comfort	Psalm 46:1 – “God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.”	Diagnose the child’s personal reliance on divine vs. earthly coping mechanisms.	Replace temporary coping strategies with deep, scripture-anchored stability.

10 Concrete Conversational Examples

“When you felt angry during lunch today, what do you think your heart was fighting to protect?”
“If I could see your completely hidden thoughts from this afternoon, would they show you walking in truth?”
“You look physically and emotionally exhausted by school right now; what specific weight can I carry for you?”
“When you look closely at how you spent your free time this weekend, who or what was being served the most?”
“When that friend hurt your feelings yesterday, did you seek ultimate comfort in your phone or in God’s promises?”
“Is there a specific sin or a lingering negative feeling that you’ve been keeping entirely to yourself lately?”
“How can we actively work together as a family to serve someone else who is struggling in our church this week?”
“What is the biggest fear currently keeping you awake at night, and what does scripture say about that exact fear?”
“Do you feel completely safe admitting your failures to me, or are you secretly afraid I will reject you?”
“In what specific ways did you see God actively display His goodness or His discipline in your life today?”

Interdisciplinary Analyst Reports

1. Myers-Briggs (MBTI) Analyst Report

The Analytical Perspective: These five strategic questions directly target the primary psychological tensions between the Thinking/Feeling (T/F) and Judging/Perceiving (J/P) cognitive continuums. By assessing “heart issues” and “burdens,” parents force intuitive (N) and feeling (F) children to externalize internalized, unstructured anxiety.
Parental Application: For a Thinking (T) child, phrase these questions logically to bypass immediate emotional defense mechanisms. For a Feeling (F) child, ensure the questions are delivered in a high-warmth environment to prevent internal emotional withdrawal or toxic shame spirals.

2. John MacArthur Analyst Report

The Exegetical Perspective: True biblical parenting requires total parental authority grounded exclusively in the absolute authority of Scripture. Asking these questions fulfills the mandate of Deuteronomy 6:7. They prevent superficial moralism by targeting the unregenerate or drifting heart rather than just correcting external behavior.
Parental Application: Use these questions not as casual conversation starters, but as a deliberate means of exposing the child’s fundamental need for the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit. Never settle for behavioral compliance; press consistently for clear biblical literacy and deep gospel conviction.

3. Jordan Peterson Analyst Report

The Psychological/Archetypal Perspective: These questions serve as a structural bulwark against ideological chaos and nihilistic resentment. By confronting children with the question of whom they serve, you challenge them to adopt voluntary responsibility. This forces them to establish clear psychological order within their personal hierarchy of values.
Parental Application: Frame the questions as a call to high personal adventure and individual rectitude. Encourage your children to articulate their internal burdens precisely. Speaking the truth out loud prevents the subconscious accumulation of dark, unaddressed psychological pathology.

4. Paul Washer Analyst Report

The Heart-Searching Reformation Perspective: The vast majority of children raised in religious homes are comforted by a superficial, false assurance of salvation. These specific questions pierce right through cultural Christianity. They force children to examine whether they possess an authentic, supernatural work of regeneration or merely an inherited, sterile religious vocabulary.
Parental Application: Ask these questions with deep, loving, and absolute seriousness. Look for genuine biblical fruits of repentance: a profound hatred for personal sin, an authentic love for righteousness, and an ongoing, practical reliance on Christ alone.

5. Greg Schad Analyst Report

The Integrated Pastoral/Clinical Perspective: True emotional and spiritual health cannot flourish in a home where communication is purely transactional. These questions function as diagnostic probes that bridge the gap between pastoral theology and practical behavioral health. They unmask hidden clinical stressors before they manifest as deep rebellion or clinical burnout.
Parental Application: Create a consistently predictable, emotionally secure environment before introducing these deep prompts. Listen with intense empathy and zero defensiveness. The primary goal is to ensure the child feels completely safe, valued, and biblically anchored amidst a chaotic culture.

As You seek understanding and clarity in your life you should always turn to your Heavenly Father for Guidance

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Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. -MATTHEW 5:24 KJV

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I would start out by saying what Jesus Christ would want us to do? Pray and how should we pray? The Lord’s Prayer, and how often should we pray? Continually. Why do we use the Lord’s Prayer and not some other? The Lord’s Prayer covers all the areas that is important for our spiritual being.

When we pray the Lords prayer we ask to forgive our enemies, let God’s will be done, the kingdom to come. By praying the Lord’s prayer we let go of many thoughts we have in our head and give them back to God so we can have things revealed to us.

We must overcome resentment in our heart, and in a past video I shared about Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about how resentment can destroy us and we become our own very worst enemy and Jordan goes on to say that we must talk to people what we have resentment toward to overcome that resentment. Other people who lived in the past who talked about this is Jesus Christ and someone who is living now who talks about this daily is Brother Augustine, Dr. John MacArthur, Dr. Charles Stanley, Rev. John Piper and Pastor Paul Washer.

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Women are looking for a fathers love. Its important that men understand women are looking for a fathers love and not get screwed. Woman more than anything are looking for a strong spiritual man to lead the future (the family). I think in many YouTube videos on biblical teachings, how young women are being hurt by men that are just looking to get laid instead of doing right and being in Christ and setting a good example of a strong man. We must be in Christ, hate no one, love all, forgave theses we resent, love what is right and support people who are walking with God.

Women need their fathers in their lives to be strong man to be good examples and not BETA men or weak examples of what a man should be. Its important that a man leads the way as Christ leads men, we as man need to fellow Jesus Christ to keep society from going to HELL.

Every day you can see or people watch how some men and women our living in hell without the right spiritual order then you will continue your hellish way according to 2 Peter. You can also find it in Romans. God will give you over to a reprobate mind.

And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient. – Romans 1:28 (KJV)

In Romans 1, Paul refers to something known as a reprobate mind. If you’re not familiar with the term reprobate, the literal definition in the Greek is failing to pass the test, unapproved, counterfeit.

Spiritual Order – In The Family and Church

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Here is Book, Chapter and Verse from the Kings James Version 1 Corinthian 11:2-16, But the main message is in 1 Corinthian 11:3: “³But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.”

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All of us are tested everyday by our personal internal struggle coming from resentment of what happened earlier in our lives as children typically what our mother did to us, telling how our fathers were not good enough or driving us away from our fathers when we were children. We most go to the people that we have resentment against and forgive them. By forgiving our mothers or whoever we have resentment against, God will forgive us and we can return to the heavenly Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

It was said if you don’t love everyone then you love no one. People today live like the Old Testament people did. We must forgive and love everyone as God Commanded us to do according to Matthew 22:34-40.

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