Teach Her The Price Of Ignoring You
Instead of trying to “teach her a lesson” for ignoring you, which is a manipulative and harmful tactic, it’s healthier to examine the relationship dynamics and focus on your own well-being. Attempting to punish a partner through ignoring them teaches them how to live without you, not how to value you, and is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
The consequences of using the silent treatment
The silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation and passive-aggression that can cause significant harm.
- It erodes trust. Deliberately ignoring someone is a violation of trust and breaks down open communication.
- It increases anxiety. The target of the silent treatment can experience intense anxiety and confusion, constantly wondering what they did wrong.
- It fuels resentment. Instead of bringing someone closer, this tactic builds resentment and emotional distance. Your partner learns to disconnect and rely on themselves, not to chase your attention.
- It can be a precursor to other forms of abuse. The use of silent treatment is a control tactic that can be a red flag for escalating emotional or physical abuse.
A healthy approach to feeling ignored
If you feel ignored by your partner, the most productive path forward is to focus on clear communication and self-respect, not manipulation.
For yourself
- Reflect on the root cause. Before reacting, try to understand why your partner might be distant. Consider external factors like work stress, or internal issues like recent conflicts.
- Focus on self-care. Being ignored is painful. Engage in activities that boost your self-esteem and occupy your mind, such as exercising, journaling, or spending time with supportive friends.
- Evaluate the relationship dynamic. Take an objective look at the relationship. Is this a one-time issue or a recurring pattern? Persistent emotional neglect can be a sign that the relationship is unhealthy.
For the relationship
- Communicate openly and calmly. Use “I” statements to explain feelings about a partner’s behavior without blame or accusation.
- Example: Instead of saying, “You are always ignoring me,” try, “I feel distant and hurt when we go for a long time without talking.”
- Set clear boundaries. Let a partner know that consistently being ignored is not acceptable. State what will and will not be tolerated moving forward.
- Seek to understand. After expressing feelings, ask a partner for their perspective. Listen to their response with an open mind, as they may be struggling with an issue that has nothing to do with you.
- Know when to walk away. If a partner continues the behavior after clearly and respectfully communicating feelings, it may be time to re-evaluate the relationship. A healthy partnership is built on mutual respect and care, and feeling valued is deserved.
Professional support
If struggling with a persistent pattern of being ignored, or if a partner’s behavior feels controlling, consider seeking help from a professional.
- Individual counseling can help work through feelings and develop strategies for healthy communication.
- Couples counseling can provide a safe environment to address underlying issues and rebuild healthy communication patterns.
What Does The KJV Bible Say:
Based on a literal reading of the King James Version (KJV) and common interpretations of traditional gender roles in marriage, some verses describe a wife’s submission and the potential negative consequences associated with not honoring her husband. The concept of “teaching her a price” through a punitive, human-enforced action is not present in the Bible. Instead, the consequences are framed as the loss of divine favor and harm to the marriage.
Biblical verses regarding a wife’s reverence and the consequences of rebellion
| Verse | Context and interpretation |
|---|---|
| Proverbs 21:9 | The writer of Proverbs suggests that it is better for a man to live alone on the corner of a housetop than to share a house with a “brawling woman in a wide house”. This does not detail a specific punishment, but implies that ignoring a husband’s headship creates a miserable home life. |
| Proverbs 21:19 | Similar to verse 9, this proverb states that it is “better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman”. The consequence is a loss of domestic peace, prompting the man to seek an escape from the conflict caused by his wife’s contentious attitude. |
| Proverbs 12:4 | This proverb contrasts a virtuous wife with a shameful one. A “virtuous woman is a crown to her husband,” while a shameful wife is “as rottenness in his bones”. The harm is not a direct punishment inflicted by the husband, but an internal one that corrupts the health and spirit of the marriage. |
| 1 Corinthians 7:4–5 | The Apostle Paul addresses the reciprocal duties within marriage, stating that spouses do not have absolute authority over their own bodies, but are called to share with one another. “Defrauding” a spouse of physical intimacy, except for a temporary time of prayer, opens the door for temptation from Satan. A wife who ignores her husband is considered to be “defrauding” him and risking spiritual trouble. |
| 1 Peter 3:1–2, 6 | The apostle instructs wives to be in submission to their husbands. For wives married to unbelievers, their submissive and respectful behavior, without a word, is meant to win their husbands over to the faith. Conversely, ignoring this submission would mean missing the opportunity to spiritually influence her husband. Sarah is provided as an example of a “holy woman” who obeyed Abraham and called him “lord,” a sign of reverence. |
The role of the husband
The Bible does not give men a license to punish their wives for perceived disobedience. Instead, it places a reciprocal and demanding duty on the husband to lead in a way that models Christ’s sacrifice.
- Love his wife as Christ loved the church: In the same passage that calls for a wife’s submission, Paul also commands husbands to “love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it”.
- Love his wife as his own body: A man is told to love and cherish his wife as he would himself, recognizing that the two are “one flesh”.
- Be considerate: In 1 Peter 3:7, husbands are commanded to “dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered”. This means treating her with respect and understanding, and warns that failing to do so will have consequences for the husband himself.
A spiritual, not human, price
From a biblical perspective, the “price” for ignoring one’s spouse is not a punishment to be inflicted by the other person. Rather, it is framed as a breakdown of the divine order for marriage. The consequences are not retaliatory actions, but rather the spiritual and relational decay of the home, loss of peace, and failure to fulfill the godly roles ordained for both husband and wife.
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This is a major important point about forgiveness
Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. -MATTHEW 5:24 KJV
Are You Your Own Worst Enemy?
I would start out by saying what Jesus Christ would want us to do? Pray and how should we pray? The Lord’s Prayer, and how often should we pray? Continually. Why do we use the Lord’s Prayer and not some other? The Lord’s Prayer covers all the areas that is important for our spiritual being.
When we pray the Lords prayer we ask to forgive our enemies, let God’s will be done, the kingdom to come. By praying the Lord’s prayer we let go of many thoughts we have in our head and give them back to God so we can have things revealed to us.
We must overcome resentment in our heart, and in a past video I shared about Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about how resentment can destroy us and we become our own very worst enemy and Jordan goes on to say that we must talk to people what we have resentment toward to overcome that resentment. Other people who lived in the past who talked about this is Jesus Christ and someone who is living now who talks about this daily is Brother Augustine, Dr. John MacArthur, Dr. Charles Stanley, Rev. John Piper and Pastor Paul Washer.
Women are looking for a fathers love
Women are looking for a fathers love. Its important that men understand women are looking for a fathers love and not get screwed. Woman more than anything are looking for a strong spiritual man to lead the future (the family). I think in many YouTube videos on biblical teachings, how young women are being hurt by men that are just looking to get laid instead of doing right and being in Christ and setting a good example of a strong man. We must be in Christ, hate no one, love all, forgave theses we resent, love what is right and support people who are walking with God.
Women need their fathers in their lives to be strong man to be good examples and not BETA men or weak examples of what a man should be. Its important that a man leads the way as Christ leads men, we as man need to fellow Jesus Christ to keep society from going to HELL.
Every day you can see or people watch how some men and women our living in hell without the right spiritual order then you will continue your hellish way according to 2 Peter. You can also find it in Romans. God will give you over to a reprobate mind.
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient. – Romans 1:28 (KJV)
In Romans 1, Paul refers to something known as a reprobate mind. If you’re not familiar with the term reprobate, the literal definition in the Greek is failing to pass the test, unapproved, counterfeit.
Spiritual Order – In The Family and Church
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Here is Book, Chapter and Verse from the Kings James Version 1 Corinthian 11:2-16, But the main message is in 1 Corinthian 11:3: “3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.”
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How God Commands Us To Forgive Those Who We Have Resentment Toward.
All of us are tested everyday by our personal internal struggle coming from resentment of what happened earlier in our lives as children typically what our mother did to us, telling how our fathers were not good enough or driving us away from our fathers when we were children. We most go to the people that we have resentment against and forgive them. By forgiving our mothers or whoever we have resentment against, God will forgive us and we can return to the heavenly Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
It was said if you don’t love everyone then you love no one. People today live like the Old Testament people did. We must forgive and love everyone as God Commanded us to do according to Matthew 22:34-40.
After Reading The Passage I would Recommend Doing A Silent Prayer
Its is said: Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. Psalm 46:10 King James Version (KJV)
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