Do you ONLY WANT SEX?: what women don’t understand about their relationships
The book and related discussions suggest that the question “Do you ONLY WANT SEX?” stems from a fundamental misunderstanding, and argue that men have diverse and complex needs in relationships beyond physical intimacy, such as respect, appreciation, emotional security, and a sense of being needed and valued.
Key male perspectives that women may misunderstand include:
- Sex as emotional connection: While women often need to feel loved to desire sex, men often need sex to feel loved and validated. Physical intimacy can be a primary way for men to feel a deep emotional connection and closeness.
- Need for respect and appreciation: Men often feel a core need to be seen as capable, competent, and valued for their contributions and efforts, both in their careers and the relationship. A lack of appreciation can make them feel unloved and inadequate, leading to withdrawal.
- Actions over words: Men frequently express their affection and commitment through practical actions like fixing things, providing support, or simply being present, rather than through verbal expressions of love. Women may misinterpret this as a lack of emotional investment.
- Fear of inadequacy: Men often struggle with a fear of not being “enough”—not successful enough, strong enough, or good enough in the relationship. This fear can lead them to avoid vulnerability or problem-solving discussions if they perceive them as criticism.
- Need for space/autonomy: Men may require time alone to decompress and recharge (sometimes referred to as “going to their cave”), which is not a rejection of their partner, but a natural need for autonomy. Women may misinterpret this need for solitude as emotional distance.
- Desire for partnership: Men look for a partner who is loyal and a “teammate” in life, making decisions together and facing challenges as a united front. They want a secure emotional base where they can rely on their partner and know they have their support.
Ultimately, the issue often lies in an “illusion of sameness” – assuming that both partners perceive and express needs and love in the same ways. Better communication and a willingness to understand these different perspectives are essential for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
What Does The KJV Bible Say?
The question you’re asking references a specific framing (“Do you ONLY WANT SEX?”) and an interpretation of relationship dynamics that might be found in a particular book or teaching, using the King James Version (KJV) of the Bible.
While the provided search results do not reference a specific book by that exact title, they offer a general biblical perspective on sex and relationships from a KJV standpoint. The Bible emphasizes mutual respect, sacrificial love, partnership, and open communication within the covenant of marriage, rather than sex being a solely male desire or a point of misunderstanding.
According to the KJV and general biblical interpretation, key principles for women (and men) in relationships include:
Key Principles for Women in Relationships (KJV Perspective)
| Principle | Description | Relevant KJV Verse |
|---|---|---|
| Mutual Sexual Duty | Wives and husbands have a mutual sexual obligation to each another and should not “defraud” one another (withhold sex) except for agreed-upon times of prayer. | 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 |
| Respect | Wives are called to reverence and respect their husbands. | Ephesians 5:33 |
| Helpmeet/Helper | Women were created as a “help meet” (a helper suitable for him) for the man, a role of value and partnership. | Genesis 2:18 |
| Submission (Contextual) | Wives are told to submit to their own husbands, which is generally understood as arranging oneself properly within the God-given order, not blind obedience to domineering behavior. | Colossians 3:18 |
| Prudence and Virtue | A prudent wife is a gift from the Lord, and a virtuous woman is highly valued. | Proverbs 19:14; Proverbs 31:10 |
| Love and Holiness | The overarching call is to holiness and love within the marriage covenant. | Titus 2:4-5 |
Misunderstandings in Relationships
The Bible suggests misunderstandings may arise from:
- Misinterpreting roles: Confusing male headship with male domination, or devaluing the role of a “helper”.
- Lack of understanding: Husbands are instructed to dwell with their wives “according to knowledge,” treating them with honor, which implies the need for mutual understanding.
- Selfishness: Sex within marriage is intended to be a mutual giving and source of pleasure, not an unselfish taking. The body of each spouse belongs to the other within the marriage covenant.
- External temptations: Withholding sex or lack of self-control can open the door for temptation (fornication/adultery) by Satan.
Ultimately, the KJV emphasizes that both men and women are created in God’s image and are co-heirs of the grace of life, with the marriage designed to be a picture of Christ’s sacrificial love for the Church and a deep spiritual unity (“one flesh”).
As You seek understanding and clarity in your life you should always turn to your Heavenly Father for Guidance
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This is a major important point about forgiveness
Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift. -MATTHEW 5:24 KJV
Are You Your Own Worst Enemy?
I would start out by saying what Jesus Christ would want us to do? Pray and how should we pray? The Lord’s Prayer, and how often should we pray? Continually. Why do we use the Lord’s Prayer and not some other? The Lord’s Prayer covers all the areas that is important for our spiritual being.
When we pray the Lords prayer we ask to forgive our enemies, let God’s will be done, the kingdom to come. By praying the Lord’s prayer we let go of many thoughts we have in our head and give them back to God so we can have things revealed to us.
We must overcome resentment in our heart, and in a past video I shared about Dr. Jordan Peterson talks about how resentment can destroy us and we become our own very worst enemy and Jordan goes on to say that we must talk to people what we have resentment toward to overcome that resentment. Other people who lived in the past who talked about this is Jesus Christ and someone who is living now who talks about this daily is Brother Augustine, Dr. John MacArthur, Dr. Charles Stanley, Rev. John Piper and Pastor Paul Washer.
Women are looking for a fathers love
Women are looking for a fathers love. Its important that men understand women are looking for a fathers love and not get screwed. Woman more than anything are looking for a strong spiritual man to lead the future (the family). I think in many YouTube videos on biblical teachings, how young women are being hurt by men that are just looking to get laid instead of doing right and being in Christ and setting a good example of a strong man. We must be in Christ, hate no one, love all, forgave theses we resent, love what is right and support people who are walking with God.
Women need their fathers in their lives to be strong man to be good examples and not BETA men or weak examples of what a man should be. Its important that a man leads the way as Christ leads men, we as man need to fellow Jesus Christ to keep society from going to HELL.
Every day you can see or people watch how some men and women our living in hell without the right spiritual order then you will continue your hellish way according to 2 Peter. You can also find it in Romans. God will give you over to a reprobate mind.
And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient. – Romans 1:28 (KJV)
In Romans 1, Paul refers to something known as a reprobate mind. If you’re not familiar with the term reprobate, the literal definition in the Greek is failing to pass the test, unapproved, counterfeit.
Spiritual Order – In The Family and Church
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Here is Book, Chapter and Verse from the Kings James Version 1 Corinthian 11:2-16, But the main message is in 1 Corinthian 11:3: “3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.”
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How God Commands Us To Forgive Those Who We Have Resentment Toward.
All of us are tested everyday by our personal internal struggle coming from resentment of what happened earlier in our lives as children typically what our mother did to us, telling how our fathers were not good enough or driving us away from our fathers when we were children. We most go to the people that we have resentment against and forgive them. By forgiving our mothers or whoever we have resentment against, God will forgive us and we can return to the heavenly Father through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
It was said if you don’t love everyone then you love no one. People today live like the Old Testament people did. We must forgive and love everyone as God Commanded us to do according to Matthew 22:34-40.
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