The Problem With Older Women Liking/Dating Younger Men

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The Problem With Older Women Liking/Dating Younger Men

The problem with older women liking younger man is that they treat those younger men as children or are trying to control them. Why do older chance a younger man then their ex-husband because they are seeking to control him and some women have controled their husband all their relationship until one day he wakes up and the wife at the time can’t control him through: sex, emotions, or food. Women have more than 3 ways to control man, husbands or boyfriends, but these 3 you should be aware as they are her top 3.

I came across an older woman this past week that really enjoyed controling this young man who is in college shes in her 30’s mother of 2 and her husband has cancer she is leaving him. I am not here to judge her but to share a story so you might not fall for the older woman.

One potential problem is that the older woman may be more interested in the younger man’s physical appearance than in his personality or maturity. This could lead to the relationship being superficial and short-lived.
Another potential problem is that the younger man may not be ready for a serious relationship with an older woman. He may not be emotionally mature enough to handle the challenges of such a relationship.
In addition, there is the potential for social disapproval. Some people may view an older woman dating a younger man as being inappropriate or even predatory.
However, there are also potential benefits to relationships between older women and younger men. The older woman may be more experienced and confident, which could be appealing to the younger man. She may also be more financially secure, which could give the relationship a more stable foundation.
Additionally, the younger man may be more open-minded and less jaded than an older man, which could make the relationship more exciting and stimulating.
Ultimately, whether or not there is a problem with older women liking/dating younger men depends on the specific circumstances of the relationship. There is no right or wrong answer, and each couple must decide what is right for them.
It is important to note that not all relationships between older women and younger men are the same. Some relationships are based on genuine love and respect, while others are more superficial. It is important to be aware of the potential risks and benefits of such relationships before entering into one.
If you are considering dating a younger man, it is important to talk to your friends and family about your decision. They may be able to provide you with valuable insights and support. It is also important to be honest with yourself about your motivations for wanting to date a younger man. Are you looking for a serious relationship or something more casual? Are you attracted to his youth and vitality? Once you have a better understanding of your own motivations, you can make an informed decision about whether or not to pursue a relationship with a younger man.

-AI (Updated 9/11/2023)

As I was listening to them talking the different topics I wanted to bud in at one point and stand up for the younger guy who does understand her game.

The young man in college thinks its normal for men to think like a feminist in the world and act like a strong man in the bedroom. I tried to explain thats not how woman really want it.

Most woman want to control a siturtion to feel safe and secure. By having a younger man an older woman control the situration and misleads the young man.

Feminist try to make strong moral men weak to control them. Feminist in history have tried to destroy the family unit meaning one man and one woman are married to have children to continue the human race. Feminist are of Satan also know as the devil. So I would say Feminist are children of the lie and continue to do the work of their father.

Doing Relationships Right

The ideal relationship is where a young man leaves home after high school or around the age of 18, goes to college, university, or trade school, he then saves money to buy a house around the age of 25, he should have his personal business together and bring a woman into his world after and only after he has his personal business in order. Before he bring his future wife into his world he should marry her after sometime dating. A man should never live with a woman outside of marriage.

There are many benefits to waiting and getting married in the right order of life. Marriage for a man will show his future wife he is a moral man of sounds character and someone she can take to her father for his approval.

I think out of tradition a man should ask the father for his daughter hand in marriage. The future father-in-law should give his support of this future marriage.

Note: Men should always date a younger women about a 1 year younger, but no more then 5 years. Its about age different and having things in common. Older women most of the time don’t respect younger men, they enjoy the control over men.

A Father Should Tell His Son Not To Date Older Women (Updated 8/04/2025)

Relationship experts and social psychology, here are some reasons a father might advise his son to consider the potential drawbacks of dating significantly older women, particularly during his formative years: 

• Differing life stages and goals: When there’s a significant age gap, partners may be in very different phases of life, leading to potentially mismatched priorities, such as career development versus retirement, or desires concerning family and children.
• Potential power imbalance: An older partner might have more life experience, financial resources, or social influence, which could potentially create an unhealthy power dynamic in the relationship.
• Generational differences: Growing up in different eras can lead to differences in cultural references, interests, and communication styles, which may create a gap in understanding and connection.
• Social stigma and judgment: Large age gaps can sometimes attract criticism or negative assumptions from friends, family, and society, which can be emotionally taxing.
• Future planning and expectations: Discrepancies regarding major life decisions like careers, finances, and family planning can arise due to age differences, requiring careful and open communication and potential compromises.
• Challenges related to health and aging: One partner might experience age-related health changes much sooner than the other, potentially impacting their shared lifestyle and creating caregiver responsibilities.
• Risk of the relationship being based on superficiality: Some fear that large age gaps can sometimes lead to relationships based on superficial factors, such as wealth or physical appearance, rather than genuine connection and shared values.
• Impact on personal growth and independence: A younger individual might miss out on exploring their own identity and navigating life’s challenges independently if their older partner tends to take a more leading or controlling role.
• Navigating differing experiences and perspectives: While learning from different experiences can be enriching, a significant age gap might create challenges in understanding and relating to each other’s life journeys and perspectives, notes Psych Central.
• Relationship longevity: Studies suggest a potential correlation between a larger age gap and a higher risk of divorce, particularly in the initial years of marriage, according to Brides.

If a father is concerned about his son dating an older woman, he should talk to his son about his concerns. He should explain why he is worried, and he should listen to his son’s perspective. Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to date an older woman is up to the son, but the father can offer his guidance and support.

It is important to note that not all relationships between older women and younger men are problematic. Some relationships are based on genuine love and respect, while others are more superficial. It is important to be aware of the potential risks and benefits of such relationships before entering into one.

If you are considering dating an older woman, it is important to talk to your friends and family about your decision. They may be able to provide you with valuable insights and support. It is also important to be honest with yourself about your motivations for wanting to date an older woman. Are you looking for a serious relationship or something more casual? Are you attracted to her maturity or her experience? Once you have a better understanding of your own motivations, you can make an informed decision about whether or not to pursue a relationship with an older woman.

Women are looking for a fathers love

Women are looking for a fathers love. Its important that men understand women are looking for a fathers love and not get screwed. Woman more than anything are looking for a strong spiritual man to lead the future (the family). I think in a video Jesse Lee Peterson shares with us on his youtube channel he has been working toward and brings everything to a point of how young women are being hurt by men that are just looking to get laid instead of doing right and being in christ and setting a good example of a strong man. We must be in Christ, hate no one, love all, forgave thoses we resent, love what is right and support people who are walking with God.

Women need their fathers in their lives to be strong man to be good examples and not BETA men or weak examples of what a man should be. Its important that a man leads the way as Christ leads men, we as man need to fellow Jesus Christ to keep society from going to HELL.

Every day you can see or people watch how some men and women our living in hell without the right spiritual order then you will continue your hellish way according to 2 Peter. You can also find it in Romans. God will give you over to a reprobate mind.

And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient. – Romans 1:28 (KJV)

In Romans 1, Paul refers to something known as a reprobate mind. If you’re not familiar with the term reprobate, the literal definition in the Greek is failing to pass the test, unapproved, counterfeit.

Spiritual Order – In The Family and Church

God the father

Jesus Christ

Father (Men over women)

Mother (Women over children)

How God Commands Us To Forgive Those Who We Have Resentment Toward.

All of us are tested everyday by our personal internal struggle coming from resentment of what happened earlier in our lives as children typically what our mother did to us, telling how our fathers were not good enough or driving us away from our fathers when we were children. We most go to the people that we have resentment against and forgive them. By forgiving our mothers or whoever we have resentment against, God will forgive us and we can return to the heavenly Father through our Lord and Savory Jesus Christ.

It was said if you don’t love everyone then you love no one. People today live like the Old Testament people did. We must forgive and love everyone as God Commanded us to do according to Matthew 22:34-40.

After Reading The Passage I would Recommend Doing A Silent Prayer

Its is said: Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. Psalm 46:10 King James Version (KJV)

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